Monday, 3 October 2011

Tantra way to success


Some people enjoy all the luxuries of life whereas some work hard throughout their lifetime but still get don’t get what they want. They keep blaming their luck for the failures.
Many times it might be your bad luck that is affecting your success. Here is a tip that can help you turn your failures in success:
- On Saturday, mix wheat flour in mustard oil and old jaggery and make 7 ‘pue’ out of it.
- Take seven flowers of aak (milkweed) and light as diya made of wheat flour with mustard oil.
- Keep all these on a leave plate and keep it at a lonely crossing (choraha).
- While keeping it there say, “Bad luck, I am leaving you hear. Please don’t follow me.”
- Then walk way. Don’t look back or discuss it with anyone.

This Navratras, fast with paneer jalebi, malai poori


Agra: One usually associates Navratra fasts with a test of will and a bland, sparse platter that's supposed to cleanse the body of toxins. But come to Agra and indulge in the fasting treats of paneer ki jalebi and malai ki poori that are finger-licking good.
"No more bland kuttu ke aatey ki pakoris and singhare ke aatey ka halwa for me," said Sudhir Gupta after feasting on a special 'upvas thali' for Rs 200 at Bikanerwala as he hurried to office.
Many office-goers like Gupta are discovering the virtues of the halvais in Agra who are making special preparations for the Navratras -- the nine-day religious festival.
Kuttu, a bean collected from the wild, ground into flour to make pakoris or pooris has normally been the staple food of the 'upvasis'.
For sweets, people conventionally go for 'khoye ki barfi' or 'singhare ke aatey ka halwa' while some even go for 'aloo (potato) ka halwa'.
"But now the scenario has drastically changed," says Bankey Lal Maheshwari, a shop-owner at Johri Bazar.
"The Navratris are now a festival time and we have ample varieties of fruits and juices to make the mood merry. One needs lots of energy to keep awake late nights for the bhajans or dancing to dandia beats," Maheshwari said.
Potato chips have replaced packaged chips at some local halwai shops.
"Fruits, boiled potatoes fried with a dash of 'senda namak' and lime juice no longer satisfy the grown-ups and the kids at home; so we have to come up with new ideas that would motivate everyone to keep the fast," admits Renuka Bansal, a housewife.
Meera, a schoolteacher, says: "Earlier people used to eat only once, but now they keep eating the whole day. More so, they want something different every time."
But those of the old-school order who are sticklers for untouched purity, continue to live on plain water and fruits. "But their number is dwindling," comments Tulika Aryashri, who runs a coaching institute.
Siddharth Mishra, a homeopath, said: "Fast and feasting go together. We celebrate all events, including death. Eating is crucial to celebrations. So I am not surprised if the Navratri fasts are changing into some kind of festivity. Having said that, a fast is generally meant to reduce caloric intake, to cleanse the system of toxins and train or control the mind."
Surendra Sharma, owner of Goverdhan hotel, says: "In our days, elders lived on just bananas and plain water. Of course they just relaxed at home and hardly ventured out as people today have to."
"These days everyone is fasting, many doing more out of fun than with any serious intent to turn spiritual or religious," he added.
At the Bhagat Halwai, the special Upvas thali costs Rs 160. At Suresh Plaza, another outlet is offering one for Rs.100.
"At kitty parties, the new status symbol is 'upvas thali' and the lavish offerings of delicacies like paneer ki jalebi, arbi ki imerti, malai ki poori, kuttu ki sohan papdi," says socialite Padmini.
Anand of Bhagat Halwai says "we have special upvas items like sama ke chawal ki kheer, saboo dane ki khichdi, various kinds of paags, falahari gulab jamuns, kuttu ke aatey ki pakodis, fruit and cream salads and juices."
Shishir at the Suresh Plaza outlet, which sells a special thali for Rs 100, says there's a big demand from office-goers. "They prefer to get it packed for offices."
The delicacies are usually prepared in desi ghee and therefore not cheap. Paneer ki jalebi costs Rs 300 a kilo while the special dry fruit paag is charged Rs 600. Kuttu ke pakode is priced at Rs 260.
But many purists see it as "degeneration of values and perspectives".
Agra's leading activist and gynaecologist Shivani Chaturvedi said: "Outsourcing of food on festivals and special vrats (fasts) was never acceptable in our society. Now it's all commercialised. Our children would never know what is cooked and how.
"These nine days of fasts were observed twice a year -- in the beginning of summer after Holi and before winter, to cleanse the body and prepare for the new season."

Tips to tire out garba, not you

The much awaited fun-filled nights are here and the city has got into a festive mood in anticipation of nine long dazzling nights of fun.

On Wednesday, Navratri began with full fervor and enthusiastic Amdavadis thronged the garba venues to dance to their favourite garba folk songs. Young and old, decked up in bright, colourful attire, swayed to the tunes of thumping music as hundreds of thousands of onlookers watched in admiration panoramic scenes unfurl in front of their eyes.

But all this revelry will surely leave your body completely exhausted.

However delightful the routine may be, getting back to the workplace in the daytime, coupled with the work pressure that builds up each passing day will take its toll on your body.

In fact, you will be completely worn out what with late night outings with friends and family becoming a mandatory thing in this festival.

So what should you do to have fun yet still keep fatigue away? The president of the Satellite Medical Association and general practitioner Dr Suresh Shah shares some tips to beat the stress this Navratri. Here are a few of them:

If you are a non- get an hour's sleep at noon.

If you're a professional, sleep or relax by lying down for half an hour before setting off for the garba.

Apart from regular lunch and dinner, eat light food twice - in the morning and evening.

Drink as much liquids as possible to keep your stamina up.

Also, take vitamin B complex tablets.

If allergic to dust, take an anti-allergic drug before going to bed.

Consume water every hour, at least.

Before sleeping, remove make-up and take a bath with lukewarm water.

Most importantly, have a good sleep after the revelry is over.

Why is navratri the best time for tantra kriyas?


According to astrology, navratri is the most appropriate time for worshipping Goddess Durga. The navratri falling on chaitra and ashwin month are very important for Hindus. Navratri during the month of aswin is also called shardiya navratri.
This is also believed to be apt time for performing tantra kriyas to appease Goddess.      
- According to astrology, the kriyas performed during this time are the most effective and yield best results. 
- The incarnation of Aadi Shakti, Goddess Durga is believed to descend on the earth and take the shape of idols during the auspicious days of navratris. Rituals, therefore, have the best effect.
- Tantra kriyas are based on the positive and negative energies around the us. During navratri, the chantings enhance the amount of positive energy and wards of negative energy making the kriyas more effective. 
- It is this flow of positive energy that makes navratris a very auspicious and holy time not just for rituals but also for starting any new project

Navratri Special: Why devotees light 'akhand jyoti'


Devotees light akhand jyoti that keeps burning throughout the nine days of navratris. This jyoti represents the immense devotion for Goddess Durga. 
It is also a message to the devotees to never lose hope even in worst circumstances just like the little diya lights even the darkest places. It also shows that devotion will bring the light of knowledge in your life. 
According to 'mantra mahodadhi' (the holy book of mantras), any chanting performed before fire (agni or deep) yields better results. 
'Deepam ghrut yutam dakshe, tel yutah ch vamatah'       Meaning: Diya with ghee should be kept on the right hand side of the Goddess and the oil lit diya should be kept on the left hand side of the Goddess. 
The akhand jyoti should be kept burning throughout the nine days. Keep a small diya in case you need to add oil or move the wicker of the akhand jyoti then light the small lamp with the akhand jyoti and keep it aside.
If in any case the akhand jyoti blows out then you can use the small lamp to light it again. Make sure you blow out the small lamp by dipping it in ghee.